MY GIRLFRIEND IS AN ESCORT. Are you ready for such relationships?

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You met an escort, and feelings awaked. And you’re absolutely sure it’s not self-deception and she feels something back. You realize you want to make relationships with this woman.

So what kind of pitfalls are waiting for you on the way and how to get away with it? Let’s discuss in this video. I wrote in my blogs and I told you in my videos before, that one of the main problems you can face in the beginning of relationships with an escort or in the process – is the feeling of being abused. And this feeling can appear from both sides: from girl’s sides and from your sides.

Unfortunately, for us this is kind of professional deformation: so many people are trying to trick escorts. To get money out of them, to get another kind of profit, that we are becoming thick-skinned through time. So keep it in mind: if you will decide to build a relationship with an escort girl, it can be a little bit more difficult than if you were starting to do it with the woman of another occupation.

If you managed to overcome that obstacle, then be honest to yourself and think in advance: what kind of relationships you’re involving yourself into. Very often men intended to see our occupation as a misfortune, as some forced circumstances that happened to us… And they want to save us out of this. Save us out of this business.

But this is not that, guys. This is bias. I told you in my video “Why do escorts hate their job” – yes these cases happen. But situations are so different, and mainly nowadays the girl chooses this occupation not because she’s starving to death, but because she doesn’t want to waste her life in McDonald’s.https://www.esl-lab.com/easy/dating-game/ She has ambitions more than that.

This is why she came here. She needed more – needed more money than some regular job can provide, she needed more freedom… This is why she is here.

We are educated, we are smart, we had choices in our life. We could build a regular career step by step, we could arrange a marriage of convenience… We can speak a few languages, we have several diplomas, but for some reason we chose this particular industry. Because we needed more than regular life could give us, because we wanted more, our ambitions were bigger. We are not in need to be saved.

So if you want this girl to quit the industry – take it into account. What will you offer here instead? Eternal love is good, this is seductive. But when the passion will be over?

You met an escort, and feelings awaked. And you’re absolutely sure it’s not self-deception and she feels something back. You realize you want to make relationships with this woman.

So what kind of pitfalls are waiting for you on the way and how to get away with it? Let’s discuss in this video. I wrote in my blogs and I told you in my videos before, that one of the main problems you can face in the beginning of relationships with an escort or in the process – is the feeling of being abused. And this feeling can appear from both sides: from girl’s sides and from your sides.

Unfortunately, for us this is kind of professional deformation: so many people are trying to trick escorts. To get money out of them, to get another kind of profit, that we are becoming thick-skinned through time. So keep it in mind: if you will decide to build a relationship with an escort girl, it can be a little bit more difficult than if you were starting to do it with the woman of another occupation.

If you managed to overcome that obstacle, then be honest to yourself and think in advance: what kind of relationships you’re involving yourself into. Very often men intended to see our occupation as a misfortune, as some forced circumstances that happened to us… And they want to save us out of this. Save us out of this business.

But this is not that, guys. This is bias. I told you in my video “Why do escorts hate their job” – yes these cases happen. But situations are so different, and mainly nowadays the girl chooses this occupation not because she’s starving to death, but because she doesn’t want to waste her life in McDonald’s. She has ambitions more than that.

This is why she came here. She needed more – needed more money than some regular job can provide, she needed more freedom… This is why she is here.

We are educated, we are smart, we had choices in our life. We could build a regular career step by step, we could arrange a marriage of convenience… We can speak a few languages, we have several diplomas, but for some reason we chose this particular industry. Because we needed more than regular life could give us, because we wanted more, our ambitions were bigger. We are not in need to be saved.

So if you want this girl to quit the industry – take it into account. What will you offer here instead? Eternal love is good, this is seductive. But when the passion will be over?

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I just want you to take the situation with all mindfulness, if you’re going to involve yourself in relationships with an escort. Ask yourself: Will my love be enough to replace everything this industry gives her? Freedom, income, attention, satisfaction… And how I will be able to satisfy her ambitions? And if you start to understand: ‘Well…

I don’t think I can afford it, but I want to be with this gir,.’- then it’s time for second question. Are you ready to accept her work? Will I be okay to kiss the mouth that sucked a few dicks today already? Will I be okay to see how my beloved is sitting in the restaurant and flirting with another man, how she’s touching his hand how she’s looking in his eyes?

Is my psychic is grown-up enough to feel the difference between her escort work and our relationships? Is my psychic is strong enough to suppress all these instincts and desires to possess? To fight with these prejudices, with this biases? Will I be able to fight with thoughts ‘Hmm… maybe she will meet somebody else at work as she met me…’ Will I be able to face the situation when some men (for instance my ex classmate) comes to me and says: ‘Hmm… I think I fucked your girlfriend.

Isn’t she an escort?’ Will I be proud of my woman at that moment? Will I be ashamed to introduce you to my family? Will I allow myself to think: ‘Hmm… if she fucks so many men, why can’t I fuck another women?’ If you think you can accept all this… Bravo!!! I applause you!

I’m so fucking proud of you! It means that you’re really ready to start relationships with an escort girl, and you have all chances to succeed. And if you’re that brave man, I have a few advices for you. First of all, don’t involve yourself too much in her business. Stop playing all these scenes in your head how she spending time with another man.

It will be difficult in the beginning, but step by step, consciously, artificially, intentionally… Just track this thoughts: this paranoia, this suspicious, this bad thoughts… track them and cut them! Another advice – be honest about your fears and discuss it with your girlfriend. Tell her: ‘Dear, I’m afraid that you will fuck some other man and tell me it was work…’ So if you have this fear – talk to her about that and discuss it. If you have another fears – tell her!

Don’t keep it in your head and don’t become paranoid about that. And, please, don’t betray here. Remember that this is not an excuse for you. Here work as an escort is not an excuse for your dishonesty. It doesn’t give you automatically a sexual freedom.

And, girls, you should realize the responsibility as well. When you start serious relationships with the guy, you should be honest. Be brave to tell him everything. Don’t put a person in the position, when a year later one of his friends comes to him and says: ‘Oh, actually, do you know that your girlfriend is an escort? And I fucked here a couple of months ago.’ Don’t put him in this position.

Don’t make him a fool. This is so fucking humiliating for a man. The worst thing you can do to a man – is to make him feel fool, that everybody was laughing behind his back. This can kill him.

Instead, tell him everything in the beginning, and give him a chance to answer in such situation: ‘Yes, I know that my girlfriend is an escort. And if you had a chance – a lucky chance – to be here customer, you should understand why I want to marry her.’ And if you’re in relationships and, for instance, you quit some time ago… Because it can be very difficult in the beginning to continue your job, when you’re falling in love, and these emotions involve… you just cannot touch another man, you just can not think, you cannot concentrate on your work…

So it can be very difficult to continue your work, so intentionally you can just emotionally quit it in the beginning. But then, when this passion comes down, and you can… you are able to start to think, you see, that you have beautiful relationships (maybe you started an amazing family together), but you feel some need for money, for instance. And you want to come back to your work. So discuss it with your man.

Try to explain him everything, so he could support you in this. Because if you make this behind his back, sooner or later he will find it out. And it can kill him.

Discuss the situation and discuss compromises wisely, as to adults. For instance: ‘Okay, you can work, but some things you should keep only between two of us. For example, your ass belongs to me only. Or I’m the only one who will lick you, or you can work one week per month and during in this week I will be hiking in mountains,’- for example. Find compromises.

You can overcome everything by being frankly and by talking to each other. If you feel that you have to lie, that you cannot accept something, it mean this is not your person. Don’t feel in it just to be…

Don’t stay with somebody, just because you think ‘This is the only chance I have, I don’t have any other choices, so I will spend this time with this person.’ This is awful decision. Relationships – is work. It is work with yourself, with mindfulness, it is a lot of talkings and discussions – if you want to understand each other of course. It is trust. I wish you amazing relationships!

Take care of each other. Love each other and love yourself. And stay safe! See you in next video.

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