Problems That Come With Dating A Mexican..

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hey guys welcome back to our Channel what was that? two weeks ago we made a video where Joss was talking about the problems that come with dating a German with dating him, specifically well.. well today we’re gonna… are you okay? I have allergies dude! today we’re gonna turn it around and I’m gonna tell you all the problems that come with dating a Mexican more precisely, this specific one here I’m so scared of this video! I’m gonna get offended big time but I know you love me and I know you secretly love all of those things about me you think so? I’m pretty sure not all of them… how dare you dude because like I said last time: I have a lot to say… before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys. I love Mexicans.

hey guys welcome back to our Channel what was that? two weeks ago we made a video where Joss was talking about the problems that come with dating a German with dating him, specifically well.. well today we’re gonna… are you okay? I have allergies dude! today we’re gonna turn it around and I’m gonna tell you all the problems that come with dating a Mexican more precisely, this specific one here I’m so scared of this video! I’m gonna get offended big time but I know you love me and I know you secretly love all of those things about me you think so? I’m pretty sure not all of them… how dare you dude because like I said last time: I have a lot to say… before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys. I love Mexicans.

I love this one specifically Mexico is a very diverse country and so are the people..https://www.adultcyberdating.net/ yes that’s very true we come in every shape, color, form and personality so we don’t want to generalize anything.. we’re not claiming that every Mexican does those things! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn Spanish and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! be prepared to meet around 100 or 200 people in one day that are part of the family that are only part of the family! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the food you will gain weight and this is due to two things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! and also on top of that it’s hard to say no because Mexican food is super delicious Oh my god I miss it so much… please send me Enchiladas Potosinas please! for me too please another reason why you’re gonna get fat because of the food is because it’s very cheap compared to Germany true! lets go to the next point now, in the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes.. I’m actually also late I’m like Mexican.. you’re half Mexican that’s actually a stereotype that I hate I hate when people tell me: you’re gonna be late because you’re Mexican but I’m late all the time! even when I try my best… that’s something I’ve struggled with forever the next point that I had to get used to a lot: you might get scared while driving I don’t want to drive in Mexico and even when your partner, in this case she, is driving Mexico you, feel like: where are the rules? where are the lines on the ground that tell you in which lane you have to go and the holes dude oh my god there is one street I have to take every time I go to my house it has so many holes.. I learned them my heart I’m like… when you get to an intersection there is not really a rule that says who can go first Yes! – there are also no signs you always tell me, the one in the biggest street can go first but for some reason all the Mexicans know where to drive it’s common sense bro! it was the worst in Mexico City there was one super busy street and we were coming from a small street and all the people from the small street were just going like this around all the other cars in Mexico City I saw my life pass through my head for real like seven times and the drivers of the ubers were like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the weather today? talking to us in the end is actually pretty impressive because Mexicans really know how to drive in crazy situations! okay the next point is a funny one but also a sad one.. sometimes for squares of toilet paper is all that you’ll get where did you experience that? seriously! we were in a market in Mexico City and I wanted to go to the toilet and this guy in front literally gave me four squares of toilet paper here, do your thing! and I was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and I told him: can I have another one?

I didn’t know this was a problem for you I mean in Germany you can find toilet paper right next to the toilet.. yeah in Mexico too! yeah okay that doesn’t happen often.. I have to say this happened like twice to me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: number one or number two? and if you say one she gives you one square and if you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- .. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is just how they are they’re like this… so don’t get your hopes up… -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous, they’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine! and I’m not letting him go out!” that is a little bit too much guys but… should I remind you of yesterday? when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at me and you literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore, which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like… -okay you are like.. and when I started dating you I was like “wow a whole new w0rld!” I have a theory though and I know this is gonna make me sound crazy but hear me out I feel like a lot of this thinking is shaped by telenovelas. Don’t come for me! have you seen a Mexican telenovela? -no -the women are so dramatic and they’re so jealous and they’re so like “he’s mine she’s never gonna take him away from me!” why is this girl staring at you? this stupid $·%·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense…

I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this?” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany guys can stay at the girlfriend’s house or girls can say the boyfriend’s house even when they’re less than 18, probably 16 they can stay at the girlfriends of boyfriend’s house sinners! and in Mexico they think the worst of people, that they are doing some very bad stuff that they cannot do anywhere else one of the most recurrent messages I get from couples is girls that are desperately asking me how did you make Janik understand that he cannot stay? or how can I make my parents understand? it’s so difficult. -it’s difficult for us too -yes both sides because at the beginning you couldn’t understand it you were like “I don’t get it” I was 22 or 23 years old when we started dating and I was like “I’m so old and I cannot stay in the same room as her” and my sister is even older and her boyfriend couldn’t stay there I’m an adult. -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but if you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy! once once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small.. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschüss!

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Problems That Come With Dating A Mexican..

hey guys welcome back to our Channel what was that? two weeks ago we made a video where Joss was talking about the problems that come with dating a German with dating him, specifically well.. well today we’re gonna… are you okay? I have allergies dude! today we’re gonna turn it around and I’m gonna tell you all the problems that come with dating a Mexican more precisely, this specific one here I’m so scared of this video! I’m gonna get offended big time but I know you love me and I know you secretly love all of those things about me you think so?

I’m pretty sure not all of them… how dare you dude because like I said last time: I have a lot to say… before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys. I love Mexicans. I love this one specifically Mexico is a very diverse country and so are the people.. yes that’s very true we come in every shape, color, form and personality so we don’t want to generalize anything.. we’re not claiming that every Mexican does those things! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn Spanish and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! be prepared to meet around 100 or 200 people in one day that are part of the family that are only part of the family! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the food you will gain weight and this is due to two things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! and also on top of that it’s hard to say no because Mexican food is super delicious Oh my god I miss it so much… please send me Enchiladas Potosinas please! for me too please another reason why you’re gonna get fat because of the food is because it’s very cheap compared to Germany true! lets go to the next point now, in the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes.. I’m actually also late I’m like Mexican.. you’re half Mexican that’s actually a stereotype that I hate I hate when people tell me: you’re gonna be late because you’re Mexican but I’m late all the time! even when I try my best… that’s something I’ve struggled with forever the next point that I had to get used to a lot: you might get scared while driving I don’t want to drive in Mexico and even when your partner, in this case she, is driving Mexico you, feel like: where are the rules? where are the lines on the ground that tell you in which lane you have to go and the holes dude oh my god there is one street I have to take every time I go to my house it has so many holes..

I learned them my heart I’m like… when you get to an intersection there is not really a rule that says who can go first Yes! – there are also no signs you always tell me, the one in the biggest street can go first but for some reason all the Mexicans know where to drive it’s common sense bro! it was the worst in Mexico City there was one super busy street and we were coming from a small street and all the people from the small street were just going like this around all the other cars in Mexico City I saw my life pass through my head for real like seven times and the drivers of the ubers were like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the weather today? talking to us in the end is actually pretty impressive because Mexicans really know how to drive in crazy situations! okay the next point is a funny one but also a sad one.. sometimes for squares of toilet paper is all that you’ll get where did you experience that? seriously! we were in a market in Mexico City and I wanted to go to the toilet and this guy in front literally gave me four squares of toilet paper here, do your thing! and I was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and I told him: can I have another one? I didn’t know this was a problem for you I mean in Germany you can find toilet paper right next to the toilet.. yeah in Mexico too! yeah okay that doesn’t happen often.. I have to say this happened like twice to me… haha he’s overreacting!

When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: number one or number two? and if you say one she gives you one square and if you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- .. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is just how they are they’re like this… so don’t get your hopes up… -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous, they’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine! and I’m not letting him go out!” that is a little bit too much guys but… should I remind you of yesterday? when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at me and you literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore, which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like… -okay you are like.. and when I started dating you I was like “wow a whole new w0rld!” I have a theory though and I know this is gonna make me sound crazy but hear me out I feel like a lot of this thinking is shaped by telenovelas. Don’t come for me! have you seen a Mexican telenovela? -no -the women are so dramatic and they’re so jealous and they’re so like “he’s mine she’s never gonna take him away from me!” why is this girl staring at you? this stupid $·%·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense… I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this?” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany guys can stay at the girlfriend’s house or girls can say the boyfriend’s house even when they’re less than 18, probably 16 they can stay at the girlfriends of boyfriend’s house sinners! and in Mexico they think the worst of people, that they are doing some very bad stuff that they cannot do anywhere else one of the most recurrent messages I get from couples is girls that are desperately asking me how did you make Janik understand that he cannot stay? or how can I make my parents understand? it’s so difficult. -it’s difficult for us too -yes both sides because at the beginning you couldn’t understand it you were like “I don’t get it” I was 22 or 23 years old when we started dating and I was like “I’m so old and I cannot stay in the same room as her” and my sister is even older and her boyfriend couldn’t stay there I’m an adult. -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but if you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy! once once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small.. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschüss!

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