DUMP HIM! – GRETA BEREISAITE

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– Hello, hello, hello, hello, hello, my beautiful ladies, hello, queens, how are we doing? I’ll just push this a bit closer, yeah, so I can kinda sit and chill, that my back back to the chair, okay. And I will do a bit of this. I think that’s kind of good, right? Is that good?

Hey, girls, hey, ladies! So, for the bones, for the ones, for the bones, (chuckles) for the ones who are joining the first time, my name is Greta Bereisaite, I am dating and relationship coach for women only and I upload a new fresh content every Wednesday, usually it’s an uploaded video and on Sundays I usually do Lives with the topic and then I do Q and A after, okay? So, hey, girls, hey, ladies.

So, today’s Live is about why you should never tell anyone to dump your boyfriend, to dump not your boyfriend, to dump another boyfriend to a friend, to dump a guy. And I’m gonna break it down for you ladies why. Now, the reason I decided to do this is because I can see it all over my Greta’s High-Value Women School, where ladies are influencing each other so much to dump a guy, literally, whenever the guy does something off or whenever the guy’s walking all over a girl or you know like just something is not working, usually 50% of the comments are like, “Dump him, dump him, “he’s a narcissist, he’s this, he’s that, dump him,” right? So you kinda influencing the other ladies instead of work on the issues, or instead of a lady to work on herself, you’re influencing her to dump him, right? To be honest, when I look at my past relationships, I think I have not had a relationship where somebody would tell me not to dump a guy.http://www.surgeapp.co/

It doesn’t matter, your relationship is amazing or not, there will be insecure people planting seeds into your relationship and influencing you to dump the guy no matter what actually it’s like. I see it even in my VIP One High-Value Woman tribe, which are the paid groups, even there I see ladies influencing each other to dump a guy. Now, ladies, why you should never tell to your friend or anyone to dump a guy? I understand that you care about your friends, I understand where it’s coming from, obviously, but now, why you should never tell your friend to dump a guy and I’ll tell you what you can do instead, if you want to help a friend, a family member, anyone.

Okay, so, imagine it’s like this, right? So, let’s say somebody came like, if somebody’s dating a low-value person or a toxic person, it must be because we are bonding to that toxic or low-value person, otherwise, we would not be dating them because we would not be able to connect to them. Now, if someone’s connecting with that low-value person, with a toxic person, is because they are toxic themselves.

Otherwise, abuser will never date a victim, right? They are both toxic, they both came from the toxic environment, this is why they relate to each other, they literally have these kinda antennas that are going like, ooh-ooh, “I connect towards you,” “Oh my God, this is what my dad used to do,” or, “this is what my mom used to do, “and I know it’s wrong but it’s making me connect “to that person, ’cause I know where he came from.” We feel comfortable with them, even if the environment is toxic, we still feel comfortable there, because if this is what we know, if this is what we used to, we’re gonna relate to that. For example, if you have a toxic person who grew up in a toxic environment and now that person needs somebody from a healthy environment, we not gonna click, because we don’t connect, we have like, there is nothing relatable there. So, ladies, imagine this: your friend, let’s say, is a bit toxic, a bit low-value, she’s dating a low-value guy, who’s taking her for granted, abusing or whatever that he is doing, and now you’re telling to your toxic friend, “Dump him, dump him, he’s not good enough, “you deserve better, dump him, dump him.” Now, okay, let’s say she gets influenced by you and she’s like, “Yes, I deserve better, “yes, he’s not good enough, yes, I’m gonna dump him.” Now, she gets influenced by you and she breaks up with this guy.

What do you think is gonna happen next? She will find another guy who is toxic, same as she still is and she’ll start dating another guy who is exactly the same as the previous guy or she will start running after him and begging him back, because she just not gonna be happy, she’s gonna be missing that other puzzle, the other piece, because your friend is still toxic and this is what she relates to. So, what you need to do, ladies, if you want to help somebody to see their value and worth, you need to encourage them to go towards self-love, self-growth to get out of that mindset, to be open minded. And then you encourage them step by step instead of talking about her boyfriend, just be like, “Oh whatever, boyfriends, who cares! “Let’s talk about you, how do we make you happy,” and you focus on them and then you encourage them, “Oh, maybe you should take up a hobby “or maybe you should do self-love affirmations, “or this is how to love yourself, “this is how to value yourself,” and you influence your friend this way, right?

And then step by step, your friend starts to grow, your friend starts to change and then as your friends starts to change, she goes like, “Oh my God, I changed so much, “I like literally see a whole new world,” like on that magic carpet, right? You show your friend the whole new world, right? And then she’s like, “Oh my God, my boyfriend, “I don’t relate to him anymore, I deserve so much better, “I don’t actually click with him anymore, “’cause now I see a life from a different perspective.” And this is how your friend will have the courage to dump the toxic person herself, and then she dumps the toxic person herself, because she doesn’t click to them, because she does not relate to them anymore. Guess what, she’s not gonna be running after him asking or begging him back, she will know that there is no more click, there is no more connection, she will know that she deserves more and she’s just, you know, she’s just gonna go for somebody, who’s at her level, who she can bond with. You see my point.

So, ladies, never ever tell women to dump a guy. And imagine this other scenario: if, let’s say, I was thinking the other way, let’s say, you’re like, “Okay, but what if my friend “is not into self-love, this and that, “and I push her to you, let’s say, to dump the guy?” What you’re gonna end up with, if a toxic low-value person dumps the guy, she listens to you, she’s like, “Yeah, he’s not good enough,” and she dumps the guy, she will start to victimize herself, she will start to, let’s say, beg and plead and cry and get very needy and obsessive and sad and desperate, she’s gonna go through all of these emotions, and if you made her to dump him, who do you think she’s gonna come to? She will come to you, she will be like, “Okay, you told me “to dump this guy, but now I’m going “through all of these crazy emotions,” so who do you think she’s gonna go to for help? She’s gonna go for help to you, and if you’re not in a place to help her and to invest your time and energy into making her to love herself, showing how to, well, you know what I mean?

Like, you just basically totally messed up the girl. Ladies, take responsibility for yourself. If you’re telling somebody to dump the person, be aware of the consequences. So, my advice is, again, do not tell anyone to dump anyone, encourage them to love themselves, become a better person to become happier, show them the way, just open their mind and influence them a little bit towards self-love, self-growth.

If they’re not open to it, well, there’s nothing that you can do. If they are, that’s fantastic, when you can both grow step-by-step and the guy, the toxic guy, will drop automatically by itself. Actually, he might drop so much, that he’s not gonna even relate to her. Here you go.

Same as with my friends, like ladies, when I started changing myself, because I was not like this before, you know, like I had lots of low-value behaviors as well, right. So, when I started changing myself, I could not relate to my friends anymore, and my friends could not relate to me anymore, so we naturally started clashing, ’cause they we not, I was not the same person anymore, and they wanted me to be the same person and I wasn’t. So we naturally started to clash and we fell apart. So, that’s how it is. Okay, let me see your questions.

Oh, and ladies, I have some really exciting things that I just want to share. First thing, I created a high-value women filter. I know it sounds crazy, sounds insane, but I have created a high-value woman filter which you can get on my Instagram, totally free because my filter is free, I have invested in that, I had created it for all of us ladies, so we can inspire each other towards self-growth and self-love and you can also get it on my Facebook.

Let me show you quickly what a filter looks like, so you have an idea, ’cause for the ones who haven’t heard about it, you’re thinking like, “What do you mean the high-value filter?” And it’s something that no one has seen before, so actually, probably you’re not gonna be able to read the writing, but this is how it goes. So, okay, so it says, because it’s like a mirror, so it says here, “Do the right thing,” then it says, “Believe in yourself.” You know, here you have the text on top towards self-love, so you have the crown that comes on your head and then you have these little sparkles, and then here on top of the crown comes inspiring words, such as “Do the right thing,” “Believe in yourself,” “Love yourself,” “Believe in magic,” “Set boundaries,” “Be grateful,” “Queens surround themselves with Queens.” So, ladies, if you yourself are getting this filter and wearing it on your Instagram or Facebook, you know, your friends will be like, “Oh, what’s that? “Why this, why that?” You know, this is how you make the world a better place, this is how you spread a message in acceptable, subtle way. If you want that filter, I will put the links in this video description. If you just press on the description, you just follow the link towards Facebook filter, to get on Facebook free and use it, and Instagram, you’re gonna have to add me on my ladies_relationship_coach, ’cause it’s on my Instagram so you can share it from me, all right? Also, if you want your ex back, I have a video for sale towards that, and I’ll put the link in my video description, and towards ultimate self-love, I also have a package that you can get in my video description, because, again, self-love is the most important thing to you in your romantic and personal relationships.

If you don’t love yourself, you’re basically gonna end up surrounding yourself with toxic low-value finger (chuckles), friends, and finger, drop it, drop that thought, Greta, and, you know, stay in the low-value environment. Okay, ladies, so, let’s do some Q and As, so I’ll push that now back, like this. Right, ladies, so I see you’re talking to each other and giving each other lots of amazing advice. Now, let me give you some advice.

So, let’s do some Q and As. Okay, so, if somebody would make a dot, then the comments will pop up and I’ll start answering your questions. Let me see, “What did you girls “think of my video with (mumbles) place?” Okay, let me see. “Hi, Greta, should guy must be older than a girl? “I’m 24,” it doesn’t have to be older. Okay, so, when it comes to guys, you can, ladies, you can date younger guys if you’re secure and confident.

Like, ladies who cannot date younger, well, lady, like, it’s okay to date a younger guy, it really is, if you are secure and confident. It’s really really important to be secure and confident, so you’re not jealous of, let’s say, his younger friends or this or that, you know, as long as you’re secure and confident, it’s fine to date a younger guy. If you’re not secure and confident, you’re gonna have problems. You’re gonna get insecure, you’re gonna be, “Where are you? “Who you’re with?” and all of that, but I, to be honest, when you’re insecure, you have problems with any guy.

I remember when I was younger, I would always think that a guy needs to be like my age or a little bit older, something like that, that was kinda my belief back then, but nowadays, I truly believe that if you bond and if you click and if you’re really secure and confident in yourself, it really doesn’t matter, if he’s a bit older or younger, or whichever way it is, it’s just all that can you handle it? Do you know how to handle it? Can you be confident with that? Okay. “Hey, Greta, how to deal with toxic people “who want to destroy your life?” You remove yourself, you remove yourself, you set in boundaries, that same as you would set in boundaries with a guy, same you set in boundaries with toxic people.

I removed myself from everyone. You know, when I started my high-value journey, I actually let go of 99.99% of my friends, and a lot of them actually dropped off themselves, because there’s jealousy, when come from the same boat, there’s a lot of jealousy. You know, if you come from the same boat and you’re growing, you’re achieving things in life and your friends are watching you, they get jealous, ’cause they’re like, “Okay, we were in the same boat, “but you’re doing this and I’m still here.” It becomes…

You just have to. Ladies, it’s very difficult to love yourself and do the right thing and to let go of people let’s say, who have been your friends for 10 or 20 years, but in order to live your ultimate happy life, you have to do it. There is no other way around, you just have to do it, you only have one life. You know, my sister passed away with regrets on her deathbed. She got cancer at the age of 38 or 40, I think, at the age of 38.

And she had a toxic marriage, very very toxic marriage, she wanted to leave her husband for 10 years, she didn’t, because it felt secure, and you are who you’re with, as I said before, like if you relating to that person and not leaving them, maybe because you are yourself like (mumbles), as much as I loved my sister. And on her deathbed, she was praying to God to give her another chance, she was praying to God to give her another chance and she was, her last words on her deathbed, ladies, she got a divorce on her deathbed. When she looked like, you know when you have children who don’t have any food, got big tummies and looking like skeletons, she looked, the only recognizable thing about her was her big brown eyes, nothing else, like I would not be able to recognize my own sister, but she had very big brown eyes and, you know, she couldn’t speak, she couldn’t talk, she couldn’t move, but she had the courage to sign the divorce papers. So she signed the divorce papers on her deathbed.

And she was praying to God all the time, saying like, “God, just give me one more chance, “I will do what I need to do with my life “in order for me to be happy.” She regretted her whole life, ladies, her whole life she regretted everything. Also, she was a social butterfly, she was a people-pleaser, she was like, she always looked amazing, she liked nice clothes, all about, she was like a very very social person, always like a social butterfly in a party. Then she was sick with cancer, she like, nobody could see her apart from me, my other sister, her son, my dad, and her mom, ’cause she was my half-sister. That was it, she did not let anyone else into that room.

And she passed away regretting her whole life, because she could not do the right thing, because she could not seem as you girls, “Oh, but there is toxic people and I don’t want to let go “of my toxic friends,” or, “I am with my toxic husband, “or my toxic boyfriend, but it’s still quite comfortable, “I’m too scared to leave it.” You know, it’s just like you have to do the right thing, it’s your life, don’t be that person, who is on her deathbed regretting her whole life. It’s your life, you need to live it, you need to do right thing. Ladies, when I started this channel, all I had was haters and people trying to stop me, “Oh, Greta, who do you think you are?” or like, “You’re single,” or this or that, like, you know, I only had hate and people looking down on me all the time. You know what kept me growing, what kept me going to build what I build?

Thoughts about my sister, because not only I was building this, at the same time my sister was dying, and while I was doing my YouTube videos, I saw her regretting her whole life. And this is what I compared, I was like, okay, me letting go of my toxic friends, I can’t victimize myself for it, because if I victimize myself and I compare myself to my sister who is dying, who looks like a skeleton, who looks unrecognizable, who’s going through that pain, I can’t even compare, this is such a tiny thing compared to that, my sister would be so happy to be in my position, just let them go. So this is what kept me going, this is when I was like cleaning my life, looking, remembering her and cleaning my life. So, you know, like, yeah, ladies, it’s just, I think it’s just really puts everything into a perspective: do the right thing, it is the hardest thing to do, but at the end of the day you will be happy. Okay, let me see more questions.

My leg went numb (chuckles). Okay. Okay, somebody make a dot.

All that like when I’m talking, everyone’s talking, everyone’s writing (chuckles). Okay, here we go. “Your sister, of a fact, very powerful, Greta, “thank you for sharing.” “That is sad way to live life full of regrets. “Yes, do the right thing. “I broke up with my guy yesterday morning, “I deleted his number.” Oh, you did, I see! I see, Felicija, okay. Felicija, I think you’re in my VIP One, so we’ll talk about it on Tuesday. “Greta, I’m sorry for your sister, “I am, I bet, like her, I don’t want.” Exactly.

I think, the only reason I’m sharing this is to inspire you, ladies, to do the right thing. And again, I’m not telling you to start dumping people, it is really really difficult. First, you need to love yourself. First, you need to be so full of yourself in a healthy way, so you can, so you’re strong enough to do it.

If you’re not strong enough to do it, you know, you’re not gonna do it or you will regret doing it. So, first, fulfill yourself with self-love, even ladies that (mumbles) guys, right? (mumlbes) guys, some of you who get my advice, you just on it and you’re doing the right thing, ’cause you’re strong, you know, like, a lot of you are really really strong powerful women, you just don’t know the right way to behave so you’re happy. Like a lot of you are strong, right?

So, you’re like, you see, you watch my YouTube videos, and you’re like, “Oh my God, Greta is right, let me try it.” “Oh my God it’s working, I need to go this way, “now I know the strategy, I’m gonna to nail,” and you just go all the way up, right? This is how a lot of you are. However there is still about 30 or 40% of you who look at the advise, you’re like, “It makes sense, but I’m too scared,” “It makes sense but I can’t do with,” or “how do you do with,” you know, like, you go like this and actually so many ladies who actually been following me for a year or two years and we know that advice inside out but we not doing it, why?

Because they don’t love themselves, it’s because we need to work on self-love a lot in order to actually do it. If you’re not strong enough to do it, don’t focus on this advice, focus on valuing and loving yourself, knowing your value and worth, focus on that. Once you’re strong here and then you’re coming back to my channel and doing the advice, you’re gonna be like, “This is easy!” “I’ve got the power!” You know, you’re gonna be loving it.

There will be no like “but what if, what if?” you’ll just be like, “Oh my God, this is working, babe!” “My boyfriend pulled away after six months, “so I broke up with him, he later told me is been stressed “and lost his career job, how should I handle this, “if it’s still want him?” You see, you see? This is why I tell you, ladies, watch my video “Why men need to pull away.” Because there are lots of reasons why men need to pull away. First, it could be stress, it could be something bad happened, if there is a death in the family. A lot of guys when there is a death in the family, they will pull away from everyone in order to sort themselves out, and then they only come back to you, when they kind of are okay to come back to you. I actually remember my nephew telling me a year ago or two years ago, maybe a year-and-a-half ago, he said like, when his mom passed away, when my sister passed away, he literally said, “I had to not reply to any messages and ignore everyone, “because I knew that by ignoring those people, “they’re gonna be safer this way. “So I pulled away, so these people are safe “and they don’t have bad feelings towards me, “because if after the death “I would have been replying to everyone,” he said, “I literally would have been the nastiest person to everyone “like to every single message ever.” So, he said, “I literally pulled way to deal with that, “and once I dealt with that, once I had my pull away, “I was able to reply with everyone else in the normal way.” Ladies, this is how a lot of men deal with stuff, then they deal with stress, then they deal with something what bad happened, when they need to pull away from you, even after like, ladies, when we have a good, when you have a loving time together, like when guys and, you know, when you have, when you have a really good loving time together, and I don’t mean just sex, like meaningful time, right?

What happens is oxytocin which is a love hormone, makes guy’s testosterone go down, and then the guy’s testosterone goes down, it’s like the phone, the battery is dying. When the battery is this much, you need to put the phone away and let him charge up. So then you’re charging your phone, then you give a guy space, let’s put him here, then you give a guy space, don’t touch it, don’t touch it, let him charge fully. Then it will charge fully, it will start beeping, it’s gonna be like, (buzzes) “Greta, Greta, Greta, “I love you,” you know, “Christine,” “Felicija, I love you! “Look at me, look at me, look at me, pick me up, “pick me up, pick me up!” And this is when you pick it up.

Until it does that, until it goes (buzzes), you don’t touch it. Only when it goes, “Pick me up,” this is when you touch it. So you let a guy pull away when his battery is here, and you’ll know that when his battery is here, because once you’ll say, “Hi, how are you?” he’ll take like six hours to reply or be like, “Fine.” You know, you’ll know when he’s not present with you, then you just have that feeling that he’s a bit pulling away, you let him charge, until he gets like, “Hi!”, okay? “What can I do if my boyfriend never gives me gifts, “not even for my birthday? “Has been two years.” Usually, guys don’t give gifts for girls that they take for granted, okay?

If he’s taking you for granted, if his attraction towards you has been lost, if he knows that you’re so crazy about him, maybe you calling and texting him all the time, maybe you’re needy, maybe you’re there to him, maybe you’re obsessive, then he feels that you are obsessive with him, he’s not gonna want to give you gifts, because his attraction towards you is down. So, in order to bring it back up, you need to be high-value. So, what I would focus on, not how to get him to give you gifts, because you cannot make a guy to get you anything, what I would focus on would be how can I make him see my value and worth and see me amazing and incredible, you know, like a dream girl, a dream woman?

And only when he starts seeing, and then he will start seeing you like that, this is when he’ll be like, “Oh my God! “This girl is so amazing!” and he’ll start to flatter you, he’ll start to give you gifts, because he’ll start to impress you, he’ll want to impress you, he’ll want you to like him, all of that, but in order for him to see your value and worth, you need to value and respect yourself, right? You cannot be obsessed with him, you cannot be making him into a whole life, into your whole cake, you need to have your own life, your own cake, build your own empire, make yourself happy. You know, don’t be needy, don’t be clingy, don’t be possessive, obsessive, don’t text him all the time, let him do that, let him chase, let him pursue, it’s a guy’s job to chase and pursue. They love doing that, men are the pursuers, they are the hunters, they are the predators, no matter what the society is telling you nowadays, men are the pursuers, why? Because their testosterone levels compared to a woman’s testosterone levels are not even comparable.

They were meant to go and hunt. The instincts are still the same. How we were designed, how we were born like thousands of years ago and how we are born now, if this still was a jungle and we all born in the jungle, we will all still be jungle girls and jungle boys, no matter, you know, like the instincts are still the same, nothing has changed here. So we are still that predators, we’re still the pursuers, so let him pursue you.

– Hello, hello, hello, hello, hello, my beautiful ladies, hello, queens, how are we doing? I’ll just push this a bit closer, yeah, so I can kinda sit and chill, that my back back to the chair, okay. And I will do a bit of this. I think that’s kind of good, right? Is that good?

Hey, girls, hey, ladies! So, for the bones, for the ones, for the bones, (chuckles) for the ones who are joining the first time, my name is Greta Bereisaite, I am dating and relationship coach for women only and I upload a new fresh content every Wednesday, usually it’s an uploaded video and on Sundays I usually do Lives with the topic and then I do Q and A after, okay? So, hey, girls, hey, ladies.

So, today’s Live is about why you should never tell anyone to dump your boyfriend, to dump not your boyfriend, to dump another boyfriend to a friend, to dump a guy. And I’m gonna break it down for you ladies why. Now, the reason I decided to do this is because I can see it all over my Greta’s High-Value Women School, where ladies are influencing each other so much to dump a guy, literally, whenever the guy does something off or whenever the guy’s walking all over a girl or you know like just something is not working, usually 50% of the comments are like, “Dump him, dump him, “he’s a narcissist, he’s this, he’s that, dump him,” right? So you kinda influencing the other ladies instead of work on the issues, or instead of a lady to work on herself, you’re influencing her to dump him, right? To be honest, when I look at my past relationships, I think I have not had a relationship where somebody would tell me not to dump a guy.

It doesn’t matter, your relationship is amazing or not, there will be insecure people planting seeds into your relationship and influencing you to dump the guy no matter what actually it’s like. I see it even in my VIP One High-Value Woman tribe, which are the paid groups, even there I see ladies influencing each other to dump a guy. Now, ladies, why you should never tell to your friend or anyone to dump a guy? I understand that you care about your friends, I understand where it’s coming from, obviously, but now, why you should never tell your friend to dump a guy and I’ll tell you what you can do instead, if you want to help a friend, a family member, anyone.

Okay, so, imagine it’s like this, right? So, let’s say somebody came like, if somebody’s dating a low-value person or a toxic person, it must be because we are bonding to that toxic or low-value person, otherwise, we would not be dating them because we would not be able to connect to them. Now, if someone’s connecting with that low-value person, with a toxic person, is because they are toxic themselves.

Otherwise, abuser will never date a victim, right? They are both toxic, they both came from the toxic environment, this is why they relate to each other, they literally have these kinda antennas that are going like, ooh-ooh, “I connect towards you,” “Oh my God, this is what my dad used to do,” or, “this is what my mom used to do, “and I know it’s wrong but it’s making me connect “to that person, ’cause I know where he came from.” We feel comfortable with them, even if the environment is toxic, we still feel comfortable there, because if this is what we know, if this is what we used to, we’re gonna relate to that. For example, if you have a toxic person who grew up in a toxic environment and now that person needs somebody from a healthy environment, we not gonna click, because we don’t connect, we have like, there is nothing relatable there. So, ladies, imagine this: your friend, let’s say, is a bit toxic, a bit low-value, she’s dating a low-value guy, who’s taking her for granted, abusing or whatever that he is doing, and now you’re telling to your toxic friend, “Dump him, dump him, he’s not good enough, “you deserve better, dump him, dump him.” Now, okay, let’s say she gets influenced by you and she’s like, “Yes, I deserve better, “yes, he’s not good enough, yes, I’m gonna dump him.” Now, she gets influenced by you and she breaks up with this guy.

What do you think is gonna happen next? She will find another guy who is toxic, same as she still is and she’ll start dating another guy who is exactly the same as the previous guy or she will start running after him and begging him back, because she just not gonna be happy, she’s gonna be missing that other puzzle, the other piece, because your friend is still toxic and this is what she relates to. So, what you need to do, ladies, if you want to help somebody to see their value and worth, you need to encourage them to go towards self-love, self-growth to get out of that mindset, to be open minded. And then you encourage them step by step instead of talking about her boyfriend, just be like, “Oh whatever, boyfriends, who cares! “Let’s talk about you, how do we make you happy,” and you focus on them and then you encourage them, “Oh, maybe you should take up a hobby “or maybe you should do self-love affirmations, “or this is how to love yourself, “this is how to value yourself,” and you influence your friend this way, right?

And then step by step, your friend starts to grow, your friend starts to change and then as your friends starts to change, she goes like, “Oh my God, I changed so much, “I like literally see a whole new world,” like on that magic carpet, right? You show your friend the whole new world, right? And then she’s like, “Oh my God, my boyfriend, “I don’t relate to him anymore, I deserve so much better, “I don’t actually click with him anymore, “’cause now I see a life from a different perspective.” And this is how your friend will have the courage to dump the toxic person herself, and then she dumps the toxic person herself, because she doesn’t click to them, because she does not relate to them anymore. Guess what, she’s not gonna be running after him asking or begging him back, she will know that there is no more click, there is no more connection, she will know that she deserves more and she’s just, you know, she’s just gonna go for somebody, who’s at her level, who she can bond with. You see my point.

So, ladies, never ever tell women to dump a guy. And imagine this other scenario: if, let’s say, I was thinking the other way, let’s say, you’re like, “Okay, but what if my friend “is not into self-love, this and that, “and I push her to you, let’s say, to dump the guy?” What you’re gonna end up with, if a toxic low-value person dumps the guy, she listens to you, she’s like, “Yeah, he’s not good enough,” and she dumps the guy, she will start to victimize herself, she will start to, let’s say, beg and plead and cry and get very needy and obsessive and sad and desperate, she’s gonna go through all of these emotions, and if you made her to dump him, who do you think she’s gonna come to? She will come to you, she will be like, “Okay, you told me “to dump this guy, but now I’m going “through all of these crazy emotions,” so who do you think she’s gonna go to for help? She’s gonna go for help to you, and if you’re not in a place to help her and to invest your time and energy into making her to love herself, showing how to, well, you know what I mean?

Like, you just basically totally messed up the girl. Ladies, take responsibility for yourself. If you’re telling somebody to dump the person, be aware of the consequences. So, my advice is, again, do not tell anyone to dump anyone, encourage them to love themselves, become a better person to become happier, show them the way, just open their mind and influence them a little bit towards self-love, self-growth.

If they’re not open to it, well, there’s nothing that you can do. If they are, that’s fantastic, when you can both grow step-by-step and the guy, the toxic guy, will drop automatically by itself. Actually, he might drop so much, that he’s not gonna even relate to her. Here you go.

Same as with my friends, like ladies, when I started changing myself, because I was not like this before, you know, like I had lots of low-value behaviors as well, right. So, when I started changing myself, I could not relate to my friends anymore, and my friends could not relate to me anymore, so we naturally started clashing, ’cause they we not, I was not the same person anymore, and they wanted me to be the same person and I wasn’t. So we naturally started to clash and we fell apart. So, that’s how it is. Okay, let me see your questions.

Oh, and ladies, I have some really exciting things that I just want to share. First thing, I created a high-value women filter. I know it sounds crazy, sounds insane, but I have created a high-value woman filter which you can get on my Instagram, totally free because my filter is free, I have invested in that, I had created it for all of us ladies, so we can inspire each other towards self-growth and self-love and you can also get it on my Facebook.

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Let me show you quickly what a filter looks like, so you have an idea, ’cause for the ones who haven’t heard about it, you’re thinking like, “What do you mean the high-value filter?” And it’s something that no one has seen before, so actually, probably you’re not gonna be able to read the writing, but this is how it goes. So, okay, so it says, because it’s like a mirror, so it says here, “Do the right thing,” then it says, “Believe in yourself.” You know, here you have the text on top towards self-love, so you have the crown that comes on your head and then you have these little sparkles, and then here on top of the crown comes inspiring words, such as “Do the right thing,” “Believe in yourself,” “Love yourself,” “Believe in magic,” “Set boundaries,” “Be grateful,” “Queens surround themselves with Queens.” So, ladies, if you yourself are getting this filter and wearing it on your Instagram or Facebook, you know, your friends will be like, “Oh, what’s that? “Why this, why that?” You know, this is how you make the world a better place, this is how you spread a message in acceptable, subtle way. If you want that filter, I will put the links in this video description. If you just press on the description, you just follow the link towards Facebook filter, to get on Facebook free and use it, and Instagram, you’re gonna have to add me on my ladies_relationship_coach, ’cause it’s on my Instagram so you can share it from me, all right? Also, if you want your ex back, I have a video for sale towards that, and I’ll put the link in my video description, and towards ultimate self-love, I also have a package that you can get in my video description, because, again, self-love is the most important thing to you in your romantic and personal relationships.

If you don’t love yourself, you’re basically gonna end up surrounding yourself with toxic low-value finger (chuckles), friends, and finger, drop it, drop that thought, Greta, and, you know, stay in the low-value environment. Okay, ladies, so, let’s do some Q and As, so I’ll push that now back, like this. Right, ladies, so I see you’re talking to each other and giving each other lots of amazing advice. Now, let me give you some advice.

So, let’s do some Q and As. Okay, so, if somebody would make a dot, then the comments will pop up and I’ll start answering your questions. Let me see, “What did you girls “think of my video with (mumbles) place?” Okay, let me see. “Hi, Greta, should guy must be older than a girl? “I’m 24,” it doesn’t have to be older. Okay, so, when it comes to guys, you can, ladies, you can date younger guys if you’re secure and confident.

Like, ladies who cannot date younger, well, lady, like, it’s okay to date a younger guy, it really is, if you are secure and confident. It’s really really important to be secure and confident, so you’re not jealous of, let’s say, his younger friends or this or that, you know, as long as you’re secure and confident, it’s fine to date a younger guy. If you’re not secure and confident, you’re gonna have problems. You’re gonna get insecure, you’re gonna be, “Where are you? “Who you’re with?” and all of that, but I, to be honest, when you’re insecure, you have problems with any guy.

I remember when I was younger, I would always think that a guy needs to be like my age or a little bit older, something like that, that was kinda my belief back then, but nowadays, I truly believe that if you bond and if you click and if you’re really secure and confident in yourself, it really doesn’t matter, if he’s a bit older or younger, or whichever way it is, it’s just all that can you handle it? Do you know how to handle it? Can you be confident with that? Okay. “Hey, Greta, how to deal with toxic people “who want to destroy your life?” You remove yourself, you remove yourself, you set in boundaries, that same as you would set in boundaries with a guy, same you set in boundaries with toxic people.

I removed myself from everyone. You know, when I started my high-value journey, I actually let go of 99.99% of my friends, and a lot of them actually dropped off themselves, because there’s jealousy, when come from the same boat, there’s a lot of jealousy. You know, if you come from the same boat and you’re growing, you’re achieving things in life and your friends are watching you, they get jealous, ’cause they’re like, “Okay, we were in the same boat, “but you’re doing this and I’m still here.” It becomes…

You just have to. Ladies, it’s very difficult to love yourself and do the right thing and to let go of people let’s say, who have been your friends for 10 or 20 years, but in order to live your ultimate happy life, you have to do it. There is no other way around, you just have to do it, you only have one life. You know, my sister passed away with regrets on her deathbed. She got cancer at the age of 38 or 40, I think, at the age of 38.

And she had a toxic marriage, very very toxic marriage, she wanted to leave her husband for 10 years, she didn’t, because it felt secure, and you are who you’re with, as I said before, like if you relating to that person and not leaving them, maybe because you are yourself like (mumbles), as much as I loved my sister. And on her deathbed, she was praying to God to give her another chance, she was praying to God to give her another chance and she was, her last words on her deathbed, ladies, she got a divorce on her deathbed. When she looked like, you know when you have children who don’t have any food, got big tummies and looking like skeletons, she looked, the only recognizable thing about her was her big brown eyes, nothing else, like I would not be able to recognize my own sister, but she had very big brown eyes and, you know, she couldn’t speak, she couldn’t talk, she couldn’t move, but she had the courage to sign the divorce papers. So she signed the divorce papers on her deathbed.

And she was praying to God all the time, saying like, “God, just give me one more chance, “I will do what I need to do with my life “in order for me to be happy.” She regretted her whole life, ladies, her whole life she regretted everything. Also, she was a social butterfly, she was a people-pleaser, she was like, she always looked amazing, she liked nice clothes, all about, she was like a very very social person, always like a social butterfly in a party. Then she was sick with cancer, she like, nobody could see her apart from me, my other sister, her son, my dad, and her mom, ’cause she was my half-sister. That was it, she did not let anyone else into that room.

And she passed away regretting her whole life, because she could not do the right thing, because she could not seem as you girls, “Oh, but there is toxic people and I don’t want to let go “of my toxic friends,” or, “I am with my toxic husband, “or my toxic boyfriend, but it’s still quite comfortable, “I’m too scared to leave it.” You know, it’s just like you have to do the right thing, it’s your life, don’t be that person, who is on her deathbed regretting her whole life. It’s your life, you need to live it, you need to do right thing. Ladies, when I started this channel, all I had was haters and people trying to stop me, “Oh, Greta, who do you think you are?” or like, “You’re single,” or this or that, like, you know, I only had hate and people looking down on me all the time. You know what kept me growing, what kept me going to build what I build?

Thoughts about my sister, because not only I was building this, at the same time my sister was dying, and while I was doing my YouTube videos, I saw her regretting her whole life. And this is what I compared, I was like, okay, me letting go of my toxic friends, I can’t victimize myself for it, because if I victimize myself and I compare myself to my sister who is dying, who looks like a skeleton, who looks unrecognizable, who’s going through that pain, I can’t even compare, this is such a tiny thing compared to that, my sister would be so happy to be in my position, just let them go. So this is what kept me going, this is when I was like cleaning my life, looking, remembering her and cleaning my life. So, you know, like, yeah, ladies, it’s just, I think it’s just really puts everything into a perspective: do the right thing, it is the hardest thing to do, but at the end of the day you will be happy. Okay, let me see more questions.

My leg went numb (chuckles). Okay. Okay, somebody make a dot.

All that like when I’m talking, everyone’s talking, everyone’s writing (chuckles). Okay, here we go. “Your sister, of a fact, very powerful, Greta, “thank you for sharing.” “That is sad way to live life full of regrets. “Yes, do the right thing. “I broke up with my guy yesterday morning, “I deleted his number.” Oh, you did, I see! I see, Felicija, okay. Felicija, I think you’re in my VIP One, so we’ll talk about it on Tuesday. “Greta, I’m sorry for your sister, “I am, I bet, like her, I don’t want.” Exactly.

I think, the only reason I’m sharing this is to inspire you, ladies, to do the right thing. And again, I’m not telling you to start dumping people, it is really really difficult. First, you need to love yourself. First, you need to be so full of yourself in a healthy way, so you can, so you’re strong enough to do it.

If you’re not strong enough to do it, you know, you’re not gonna do it or you will regret doing it. So, first, fulfill yourself with self-love, even ladies that (mumbles) guys, right? (mumlbes) guys, some of you who get my advice, you just on it and you’re doing the right thing, ’cause you’re strong, you know, like, a lot of you are really really strong powerful women, you just don’t know the right way to behave so you’re happy. Like a lot of you are strong, right?

So, you’re like, you see, you watch my YouTube videos, and you’re like, “Oh my God, Greta is right, let me try it.” “Oh my God it’s working, I need to go this way, “now I know the strategy, I’m gonna to nail,” and you just go all the way up, right? This is how a lot of you are. However there is still about 30 or 40% of you who look at the advise, you’re like, “It makes sense, but I’m too scared,” “It makes sense but I can’t do with,” or “how do you do with,” you know, like, you go like this and actually so many ladies who actually been following me for a year or two years and we know that advice inside out but we not doing it, why?

Because they don’t love themselves, it’s because we need to work on self-love a lot in order to actually do it. If you’re not strong enough to do it, don’t focus on this advice, focus on valuing and loving yourself, knowing your value and worth, focus on that. Once you’re strong here and then you’re coming back to my channel and doing the advice, you’re gonna be like, “This is easy!” “I’ve got the power!” You know, you’re gonna be loving it.

There will be no like “but what if, what if?” you’ll just be like, “Oh my God, this is working, babe!” “My boyfriend pulled away after six months, “so I broke up with him, he later told me is been stressed “and lost his career job, how should I handle this, “if it’s still want him?” You see, you see? This is why I tell you, ladies, watch my video “Why men need to pull away.” Because there are lots of reasons why men need to pull away. First, it could be stress, it could be something bad happened, if there is a death in the family. A lot of guys when there is a death in the family, they will pull away from everyone in order to sort themselves out, and then they only come back to you, when they kind of are okay to come back to you. I actually remember my nephew telling me a year ago or two years ago, maybe a year-and-a-half ago, he said like, when his mom passed away, when my sister passed away, he literally said, “I had to not reply to any messages and ignore everyone, “because I knew that by ignoring those people, “they’re gonna be safer this way. “So I pulled away, so these people are safe “and they don’t have bad feelings towards me, “because if after the death “I would have been replying to everyone,” he said, “I literally would have been the nastiest person to everyone “like to every single message ever.” So, he said, “I literally pulled way to deal with that, “and once I dealt with that, once I had my pull away, “I was able to reply with everyone else in the normal way.” Ladies, this is how a lot of men deal with stuff, then they deal with stress, then they deal with something what bad happened, when they need to pull away from you, even after like, ladies, when we have a good, when you have a loving time together, like when guys and, you know, when you have, when you have a really good loving time together, and I don’t mean just sex, like meaningful time, right?

What happens is oxytocin which is a love hormone, makes guy’s testosterone go down, and then the guy’s testosterone goes down, it’s like the phone, the battery is dying. When the battery is this much, you need to put the phone away and let him charge up. So then you’re charging your phone, then you give a guy space, let’s put him here, then you give a guy space, don’t touch it, don’t touch it, let him charge fully. Then it will charge fully, it will start beeping, it’s gonna be like, (buzzes) “Greta, Greta, Greta, “I love you,” you know, “Christine,” “Felicija, I love you! “Look at me, look at me, look at me, pick me up, “pick me up, pick me up!” And this is when you pick it up.

Until it does that, until it goes (buzzes), you don’t touch it. Only when it goes, “Pick me up,” this is when you touch it. So you let a guy pull away when his battery is here, and you’ll know that when his battery is here, because once you’ll say, “Hi, how are you?” he’ll take like six hours to reply or be like, “Fine.” You know, you’ll know when he’s not present with you, then you just have that feeling that he’s a bit pulling away, you let him charge, until he gets like, “Hi!”, okay? “What can I do if my boyfriend never gives me gifts, “not even for my birthday? “Has been two years.” Usually, guys don’t give gifts for girls that they take for granted, okay?

If he’s taking you for granted, if his attraction towards you has been lost, if he knows that you’re so crazy about him, maybe you calling and texting him all the time, maybe you’re needy, maybe you’re there to him, maybe you’re obsessive, then he feels that you are obsessive with him, he’s not gonna want to give you gifts, because his attraction towards you is down. So, in order to bring it back up, you need to be high-value. So, what I would focus on, not how to get him to give you gifts, because you cannot make a guy to get you anything, what I would focus on would be how can I make him see my value and worth and see me amazing and incredible, you know, like a dream girl, a dream woman?

And only when he starts seeing, and then he will start seeing you like that, this is when he’ll be like, “Oh my God! “This girl is so amazing!” and he’ll start to flatter you, he’ll start to give you gifts, because he’ll start to impress you, he’ll want to impress you, he’ll want you to like him, all of that, but in order for him to see your value and worth, you need to value and respect yourself, right? You cannot be obsessed with him, you cannot be making him into a whole life, into your whole cake, you need to have your own life, your own cake, build your own empire, make yourself happy. You know, don’t be needy, don’t be clingy, don’t be possessive, obsessive, don’t text him all the time, let him do that, let him chase, let him pursue, it’s a guy’s job to chase and pursue. They love doing that, men are the pursuers, they are the hunters, they are the predators, no matter what the society is telling you nowadays, men are the pursuers, why? Because their testosterone levels compared to a woman’s testosterone levels are not even comparable.

They were meant to go and hunt. The instincts are still the same. How we were designed, how we were born like thousands of years ago and how we are born now, if this still was a jungle and we all born in the jungle, we will all still be jungle girls and jungle boys, no matter, you know, like the instincts are still the same, nothing has changed here. So we are still that predators, we’re still the pursuers, so let him pursue you.

If you’re pursuing him with your affection, attention, all of that, you’re turning him off, ’cause you’re behaving like a guy, a guy does not want to date another guy, he wants to date a woman, wants to date a queen, he needs to come after his queen. Look at the animal kingdom, has animal kingdom changed? No, the lion is still pursuing the lioness, the birdies still singing for the birdness (chuckles), you know, it’s still like that.

Have you looked at what’s his name, is it peacock? I think it’s called peacock, I’m not sure. The peacock, where like the male to impress the female, he does the whole, like goes like all beautiful and start showing off, right?

Let him be the peacock! Okay, let’s see your questions. Somebody make a question, a dot (chuckles).

Okay, everyone’s quiet, listening about my peacock stories. Yes, here we go, thank you. Right, let’s see more questions. “How do you know if a breakup is a real one? “I have been high-value and setting boundaries, “and my boyfriend said he is done, “because I don’t give much to him, “cook and come over to him, it’s happened before.” “Cook and come over to him”? Well, he can, like, it depends, hun, this is where a lot of, I don’t know your story, but I’m just kinda go over that, gonna go with that. So, this is where a lot of girls go wrong, okay?

When we start high-value, in the beginning, we are too nice and then we become too bitchy, right? This is how it goes, this is how girls do it. Because we watch me, we go like, “Oh, Greta is giving this advice! “Oh my God, it’s working! “Let me step it up a notch.” And once we step it up and they take it too bitchy, this is when the guy goes like, “Oh my God, she’s like, “I don’t feel like she’s into me. “She’s a bit too bitchy, she doesn’t do this, “she doesn’t do that, I’m not getting anything from her.” Any self-loving high-value guy will be like, “I feel like it’s not working for me,” right? So, this is where girls, like, you don’t step it up a notch, if you’re following my advice, follow it, don’t make it too extreme, because it’s gonna be too much, I already made it like nearly tailor-made for all of you, you know, like, it’s tailor-made, don’t make it more, because that’s too bitchy.

Some guys like girls who are too bitchy, but those guys are not very healthy guys either, ’cause they actually like a woman taking advantage of them, so that’s toxic behavior. Low-value, giving too much, that’s toxic behavior as well. High value is in between, you cannot be too bitchy, you cannot be too nice, you have to like, all you do is love yourself, respect yourself, you set in healthy boundaries and you give, ladies, you still need to give. Every guy is a little bit different, like if you’re dating a guy who is a total, let’s say, alpha guy, who is very protective, who’s very alpha, who’s very strong willed, who’s big go-getter, who likes to achieve his goals, let’s say, a lot of athletes are like that, right? So, if you’re dating someone like that, then with this type of person a lot of times they will like going for you nearly a hundred percent, he may not even like you giving him 30%, he’s just gonna not like that, he will be like, “Oh, I don’t like that,” you know.

If you’re dating a guy who is a bit softer, who’s not such strong go-getter or athlete or business guy or alpha man, who’s a little bit softer, he will like it more when you give more, you know, he’ll actually like it and you’re gonna bond more when you give a little bit more. The goal, ladies, is not to over-give, and you yourself know what type of guy you’re dating. I’m not dating your guys, you’re dating your guys. You need to adjust advice for every single guy, like you know you’re dating this strong alpha guy or you’re dating with a bit softer guy, how to test it? Imagine this: let’s say, you’re letting a guy pursue you and, let’s say, one time, let’s say, you send him a message first, and then you see how your response did.

If you send him a message first and you see that he looked at it and he’s playing games with it, so he replies the next day, two days after, four hours after, he gives you like little bread crumb, you’re like, “Okay, so when I text him a message first, “he’s kinda having a power-play and a tantrum, “and it’s like he’s not responding to me, “he’s not communicating, he’s kind of playing games,” so you’re like, “okay, if you’re doing like that, “well, then, obviously, I’m not gonna be “texting you first anymore, “’cause you obviously don’t like that, “can see you don’t like that, “’cause you’re not responding well to it, “so I’m taking away what I’m giving.” Logic, makes sense, right? If you, for example, give a child a toy and the child throws the toy away, you take away the toy and you don’t give it to the child anymore. Makes sense, right? If you, for example, date a bit of a nicer guy, let’s say, and you text him a message, and he is trying to make a conversation, and he’s happy and he’s engaging, and he’s sweet and charming, then you’re like, “Oh my God, cool, this is nice! “I can actually text him first sometimes, “’cause he’s responding really well to it.” That’s it.

So you, ladies, it’s okay to test these things, test it out, it’s fine, it’s gonna, like, you’re not gonna, if you’re following every single rule and stuff, and you’re like, “Oh my God, if I’ll text him first, “now, oh my God, I can’t text him,” it’s okay to try it. It’s okay to try this. You tried this, you see it’s not working, don’t do it again.

Simple.com, right? Just don’t do it again. If you see it’s working, then you’re like, “Okay, I can do it sometimes.” So it’s okay to test it. The goal is don’t be the one that you tried it once, it’s working and now you’re like, “Oh my God, this is working, “I’m gonna be texting him all the time, “I’m gonna be pursuing him,” like, don’t go crazy with it, have the control, but it’s okay to test it, okay?

Cool. So, a dot again, please, a heart, here we go. “Do not chase a man ever.” It’s not chasing, girls, you still need to give, you still need to give, like, (sighs) it’s not necessarily chasing, you still need to give, like it’s otherwise, then it’s like, if he’s just doing everything for you, you know, some guys don’t like that, you still need to give. Chasing is like, “Do not chase a guy ever,” it’s like, you can’t say it, “Do not chase a guy ever,” because, if you’re touching a guy first, that’s actually chasing, ’cause you’re initiating first. You’re cooking a meal for a guy, that’s actually chasing, ’cause you’re initiating first.

You are pursuing for sex, that’s chasing, you’re doing any kind of move towards him, that’s chasing, so saying “Do not chase a guy ever,” that does not even make sense, because it is about giving and receiving. You see the point, it’s like, that message does not make sense, it’s not just texting him first or calling him, it’s any kind of move towards him, that’s pursuing. Okay, let me see, “Men are too waste of energy and time.” No, don’t waste your energy on a guy, when you don’t waste your energy on a guy, this is when they come after you.

You don’t need to waste your time or energy on a guy, always like, look, don’t waste your energy and time on a guy, they will all line up for you. So, then it’s not a waste of time, right? But when you’re actually investing your time and energy in a guy too much, this is when it becomes waste of time. Why is it waste of time? ‘Cause you’re wasting your own time. Don’t waste your time on him and it’s not gonna be a waste of time.

It was about a bit too philosophical. “What to do long distance, no contact for a month now? “He said his mobile got spoiled, “but he’s been online every,” okay, that’s an excuse. Long-distance, no contact for one month, he’s out, he’s out, is that your boyfriend or is it just a guy that you’re kind of talking to? Ladies, if it’s a guy that you’re talking to randomly, he can disappear on you for three months, it’s fine, ’cause he’s just random guy you’re talking to, maybe sometimes chance he will send you something sweet. He can reappear once a year, it’s fine, who cares, right?

If it’s your boyfriend, that’s not your boyfriend anymore. No matter what excuse he gives you, okay? Oh, one month is not to pull away, ladies. You know, like, one month is “I’m gone,” and he’s gone and you’re not interested anymore, that’s not a pull away. A healthy pull away, ladies, is two, three, four days maximum.

If you had an argument or if you had a fight, that could be a bit more, ’cause it’s a bit more complicated. But if there is no argument, if he just disappears on you, one, two, three, four days maximum, that’s a healthy pull away, longer than that, he’s playing games. And if he’s playing games, then you see, you’re like, “Okay do I play you at your own game, “and show you that it’s not working for me “or is it too much and this is not my type, “and I’m gonna let you go?” So, the decision is yours one to make. The most, ladies, when you achieve with guys emotional control and control of yourself.

It’s literally magic. When you control yourself and they can’t reach, when the guy is trying to provoke you, he’s telling you all the crazy stuff and he’s accusing and provoke you and is seeing your reaction and he can’t read you, ’cause you’re like doing your thing, you know, he’s trying to provoke you, you’re like trying your iPods on, you know, he’s trying to provoke you and he’s telling you a story and you’re like (yawns), going on your phone. He’s trying to provoke you and you start to write something, you’re like, “What did you say?” This will make him go crazy.

This, like, what will happen here instead of provoking you, he will dig himself a hole and he will end up provoking himself and he’ll get so annoyed that his provocation didn’t work on you, and he’ll get so insecure about maybe you don’t care about him, that he’ll start going crazy and when he’s going crazy, ’cause you don’t care about him, he’ll actually try and step it up, ’cause he’ll be like, “Oh my God, why does she not care about me?” So, for majority of situations, no reaction is your gold, it’s your diamond, like, your diamond is no reaction. Also, ladies, let me give you, I’ll finish it with one last tip, okay, ’cause a kind of time for me to go, kinda time for me to go. I’ll finish it with one last tip, and literally write this down, it’s really good.

You know, self-love, how to get your ex back, the filters, get it all from my video description, but anyway one last tip. If you are in a situation, this is gold, if you are in a situation where something big happened or you feel insecure or you feel like you’re gonna lose emotional control or just you feel like, “Oh my God, what do I do?” Feel like you’re gonna explode or something like this, don’t do anything. Your gold is don’t do anything, right? Doing nothing, you will never harm a situation if you don’t do anything. Literally, just like, something happened, remove yourself from it straight away, just don’t reply, don’t call back, just remove yourself.

If you’re gonna have to give him an excuse, tell him, you know, your battery went off or something happened or “So I couldn’t respond,” just come up with an excuse but don’t do anything. Then you’re not gonna do anything, like, then leave it and then look for the right solution how to approach that specific situation, but in that time being, just don’t do anything, because majority of really bad situations happen because we over-react or we react the wrong way, which is the same thing, but you’re reacting the wrong way, like, literally damages in a lot of case everything. So, just not doing anything, you don’t know how to respond, you don’t know how to react, just remove yourself, and once you remove yourself then get in contact with somebody who’s gonna tell you how to behave or think of the most logical answer to this situation. This is really really important, girls, not doing anything, like literally gold, seriously.

Yeah, okay, girls, so like it if you liked it, let me know in the comments below what did you think, follow me on my Instagram, called ladies_relationship_coach, this is where you can get my filter free. On my Facebook, which is my name, Greta bereisaite, where I am actually need to change that kind of link, I think. On my Facebook, you can get my filter as well.

Join my Greta’s High-Value Women School, where we are all in the same boat learning how to be a high-value, you can join my paid groups, VIP One and VIP Two, these groups are gold. I’ll tell you quickly how it works, okay? VIP One and VIP Two, you join it as a gym membership, so it’s a subscription-based, you can cancel it at anytime, and what happens, you pay for one month, but it’s a subscription so it continues, unless you cancel it, and then you have coaches answering your questions during the Lives, during the Facebook Lives three times a week. So, for example, in the VIP One the Lives are Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday.

So, let’s say, on Monday I make a post, “Ladies, I’m gonna do a Live in VIP One “at this and this time, please post your questions “in the comments below,” a girl post her question which can be a screenshot size long in the comments. On Tuesday I do the Live, I open the post, I see, let’s say, 30-40 questions, and I start answering every question from the start, and then after I share the Live, so you can re-watch it in your own time and see the questions, get you answers. This happens three times a week. In the meantime, lots of girls do live streamings, they share their stories, everything is private, confidential, girls are from all over the world, like, everywhere all over the world.

In the VIP One you get the texting video free and in VIP Two you get how to get your ex back video free. Both groups work exactly the same way. In the VIP One I’m one of the coaches, in the VIP Two I have other two phenomenal coaches coaching.

I’m not into the VIP Two, but the girls, the coaches, who coach, they coach my advice, okay? So, ladies, kisses! Have a beautiful day and I hope I’ll see you maybe in my VIPs or the school or Instagram, anywhere. Lots of free places to, anyways (chuckles).

Okay, have a good day, kisses, bye-bye!

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